All Others must be happier than me? NO, is it !!! Why, What are their problems?

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I raised my consciousness high above and looked below to inquire and introspect to CONFIRM if I am the only chosen miserably troubled soul or are there any more like me !!!!

I descend into a gentleman wearing sky blue shirt and got connected. He works as a security guard in a branded posh society of rich residents. He earns a meager Rs 8500 Per month with NO PF , ESI, Insurance, Leaves – both sick or earned, no weekly off, 10-12 hours shift, lives in a small Dingy with his family all of 4. There is no dignity of labor as he obeys all instructions which include troubleshooting lift, operating the water Motor, door lock issues, street lights, parking disputes and when something goes wrong even takes an earful from residents !!!!! I eject instantly as it becomes unbearable !!!

I next get into a better dressed gentleman and get connected. He works as a Telemarketing executive and gets Rs. 12000 Plus incentives. Though he has good academics, he is here because of lack of suitable opportunity and family commitment.  His call conversion ratio is very poor and he is most likely to be fired. People hate telemarketers and often abruptly disconnect the call sometimes abusing him. Thanks to the advanced App’s like Truecaller 50% of his calls are blocked !!  He works for an unethical organisation and often forced to call even the DND numbers. I eject instantly as it becomes unbearable !!!

I now move into a person who is dressed white/Khaki. He is on Govt. Payroll and earns Rs 25000 PM. Aha, I guess he will be little happy ? He is a Cop and works for 12 hours shifts on most of the days. No festivals, public holidays for him as he is assigned for Bandobast. Unearthly duty hours, irregular food, high level of stress with no rest have taken a toll on his health. He works mostly in makeshift offices either modular tin sheds or temporary offices under flyovers. His community “Police” is often branded as inefficient, corrupt and most people have a love hate relationship with them. A small bunch of corrupt policemen have spoiled the larger image. I eject instantly as it becomes unbearable !!!  

Little confused, I wander for some time and then get into a familiar person who happens to be my maid. She works tirelessly 10 hours covering 10-12 houses primarily dish-washing, cooking and cleaning. For her too, no concept of leaves, rest, festival, sick leaves etc. Her husband has an amputated foot and has no job. The only hope for her is her two children who might do better than her and may bring joy in her life in future. Off late as she is catching up with age, health is not co-operating and her employers, most of them are NOT at all Compassionate.  I eject instantly as it becomes unbearable !!!

I have plenty of time and resources and surf more and more samples including rich, super rich, White collared, Blue Collared, Khadi clad, Army men, Paramilitary Forces and few of my relatives as well. everyone have problems, miseries, adversities and uncertainties in some or other form.  I eject instantly as it becomes unbearable !!!

I have brought back my consciousness into my body and I am feeling lighter now !!!! I now realise that I am far far better placed than them. My problems are nothing compared to theirs. God has been partial in granting me a comfortable life with abundance in every aspect of life. My Ego, ignorance, delusion, expectations and comparisons are only the root cause of my miseries !!!! Over and above God has given me ability to be compassionate with others and help them which I must do going forward. Thank you oh God for making me realize that I (in fact we all) am a joyous creation of you and should live together with harmony without any comparison !!!!

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